Its your friends who break your heart7/14/2023 ![]() ![]() Being in love is NOT meant to complete you. Take note, love isn’t like romance movies. This is one of the reasons why it’s so hard to forget someone who broke your heart – because they made you feel complete, and now you have to find a way to fill that void on your own. And it can be tough to do that, especially if you’ve been in a codependent relationship. ![]() After all, you have someone else to worry about! But when that relationship ends, all of a sudden you’re faced with the prospect of meeting your own needs again. When you’re in a relationship, it’s easy to forget about your own needs and wants. The person you loved made you feel complete There are many reasons why it’s hard to forget someone who broke your heart. But, the pain and emotions associated with the breakup can be even more difficult to shake. Trying to move on from a relationship can be a challenge in itself. Reasons Why It’s Hard To Forget Someone Who Broke Your Heart We hope that by the end of it, you’ll have a better understanding of why heartbreak is such a tough situation to navigate, a better plan for overcoming it, and a vibe, you are willing to take the risk to get exactly what you want although you may have been hurt before. Here, we’re going to explore the reasons heartbreak is so hard to forget, and the strategies that work best for coping with this difficult experience. No matter how you feel about heartbreak, it’s clear that it affects our thinking and behavior in ways that we can’t always understand. I’ve certainly been through the struggles of frustration, of pain and disappointment, and what feels like neverending tears. Either way, it’s important to know, that when someone breaks your heart, sure, it makes feel like your world is most definitely ending, it may seem impossible to ever forgive, forget and move on, but you will, eventually. Given the situation of love, it is almost inevitable you have either already experienced heartbreak, or will embark on the frustration of being broken-hearted sometime in your future. ![]() The truth is, in order to garner the exact relationship you desire, you have to be willing to take that risk to fall in love with someone to the point where it may be hard to imagine life without them. The most notable risk, most of us try to avoid is being hurt. Sounding like it was created from the other side of the crushing sadness that defined his earliest work, the album continues Blake's incremental shift to lighter material and songs that lean more into acceptance than torment.Being in love always comes with risks. Even though Friends That Break Your Heart travels a winding path from experimental rap tracks to the tender balladry that makes up the majority of its final quarter, it's still one of the more accessible, and occasionally predictable, collections of material from Blake. The album moves through a few different modes as it goes on, including the chipper post-breakup shrugging of "Foot Forward," the catchy and hypnotic sample-bending of "I'm So Blessed You're Mine," and "Frozen," a continuation of Blake's collaboration with high-profile rappers that finds SwaVay and JID executing sharp verses over an eerie, creeping instrumental. The melodic harpsichord samples and swimmy synth arpeggios of "Coming Back" are so complimentary of guest collaborator SZA's vocals, it's almost too soon when her verse ends and Blake's wispy falsetto returns. It commits to dynamism in a way that's almost anthemic by James Blake standards, wallowing in heartbreak but still delivering a hooky chorus. "Life Is Not the Same" brings back the skeletal piano chords, clicky drum programming, and unexpected production turns of Blake's early work, but anchors the song's more free-floating qualities with a soaring chorus. The spare "Famous Last Words" flows affably through subtle synth lines and increasingly layered vocals, opening up into a sweet swell of strings and romantic harmonies just before winding down. A string of straightforward and uncomplex songs open the album. Fifth album Friends That Break Your Heart continues the emotional climate change that the producer/songwriter has been experimenting with, landing largely as a friendly pop record, even while holding on to traces of the pain and loneliness that are inextricable from Blake's music. His fourth album, Assume Form, felt a few degrees warmer as well, with several songs that offset his signature melancholy with feelings of springy joy and the giddy excitement of new love. While still mired in heartbreak and discontentment, the production on 2016's The Colour in Anything brightened up just a touch from the stark atmospheres of Blake's groundbreaking earlier records. James Blake's discography has experienced a gradual thaw. ![]()
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